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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Condolences on your loss, stile.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Stile, you are right. You were there and she knew it. My mother, my aunt and I were there in hospice when my dad passed in much the same way. At some point, prolonging is really akin to torture. Life is precious because it's finite. She knew you were there and loved her, and that's all anyone could ask.
My condolences, my friend.
Damn you, you kids! Get off my lawn or I'm callin' tha cops!
Something pithy!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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We had the funeral on Monday and it went very well. My sister and I both gave a eulogy and contributions from others added to the shared reflection on Mum's life. Painful and sad but also wonderful and uplifting.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Sending my thoughts to you and your sister and family, stile.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Oh I'm just seeing all this now from the last couple of weeks. My condolences to you and your family, Stile.
She sure seems to have had a wonderful life - that long of a time here is certainly something to celebrate, and its always good to be able to celebrate a life well lived than mourn a tragic one cut short. You've had the gift of her in your life and the ability to say goodbye, which is so rare.
Last edited by Gaseous Lad; 07/12/23 06:51 AM.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Got Sam his first vehicle yesterday. Talk about a nut punch. It's great, he's growing into a fine young man. But, my little buddy is jumping out the nest. Most of my actual physical time in his life is over with him going back to school at the start of August.
That said, it's a good thing. He's learning responsibility, how to manage things, how to stand on his own and be ready to make a place of his own in the world.
So, all in all, it's great. But also a little bittersweet as his mama said.
Damn you, you kids! Get off my lawn or I'm callin' tha cops!
Something pithy!
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ah, that time when the little ones grow up and are about to fly off. you and the mrs. did a good job raising Sam, but indeed I can imagine it's bittersweet
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Congrats and commiserations Rick. It is hard when they leave to make their own way but as you said great to see that they can. Enjoy the memories and hopefully look forward to new and ongoing relationships with your son in the future.
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Popping planets! I remember when Sam was born!
Holy Cats of Egypt!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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I remember when Rick got engaged!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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I remember when Rick hatched!
Seriously, congrats on the loving and steady parenting, Rick. You and Carol done good!
Last edited by Legion Tracker; 07/20/23 05:29 PM.
"Everything about this is going to feel different." (Saturn Girl, Legion of Super-Heroes #1)
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Yesterday was my mom's birthday. The past year has been rough on her, with all manner of aches and pains centered around her lower back.
I was determined to give her the happiest birthday I possibly could.
And it went exactly as I had hoped it would.
I went to bed happy.
Still "Fickles" to my friends.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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that's lovely, Ann! happy birthday to your mom! awesome that you made her feel so special!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Still "Fickles" to my friends.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Glad it worked out so well. That's great news.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Still "Fickles" to my friends.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Oh that's so cool, Ann!!! Mission Accomplished!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Still "Fickles" to my friends.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Excellent, Ann. I'm glad it went so well for you.
Not for me personally, but one of the few IRL friends I still have just had his first grandchild, a grandson. I cannot get in to particulars, but there was significant worry healthwise for his daughter, and thusly the baby as well. But, all went well and he has a healthy 7lb, 10 ounce grandson. He stands five foot six and 140lbs soppin' wet, and right now the biggest thing about him is his smile.
Damn you, you kids! Get off my lawn or I'm callin' tha cops!
Something pithy!
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Rick, that's wonderful!! happy for your friend and his family.
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Excellent, Ann. I'm glad it went so well for you.
Not for me personally, but one of the few IRL friends I still have just had his first grandchild, a grandson. I cannot get in to particulars, but there was significant worry healthwise for his daughter, and thusly the baby as well. But, all went well and he has a healthy 7lb, 10 ounce grandson. He stands five foot six and 140lbs soppin' wet, and right now the biggest thing about him is his smile. Skimming, rather than reading got me "new grandson" "health risk" and "five foot six". And I'm thinking, I 'm not surprised there's a health risk. That's some height for a baby. Great that everything worked out, and lovely to hear about their happiness, Rick. Thanks for sharing.
"...not having to believe in a thing to be interested in it and not having to explain a thing to appreciate the wonder of it."
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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Okay my personal one - we moved the youngest into college this week! Of course I sprained my ankle in the process, but I can live with that
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Re: Crow! Tell us the good things going on in your life!
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great milestone for your youngest and you, GL! hope the ankle gets better....
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